Ok here is the story.I just need as many opinions as possible.My ex girlfriend decided to end our relationship about a month ago because I was being negative and she just got fed up with it.At first i did all the normal stuuf that goes along with a break up ,the begging,the apologies but i didnt do it to the extreme either.She told me that because of my actions she had taken that decision,that she loved me but she needed space.she told me not to text her and not to contact her because she didnt want to see me.A few days went by and when the waters had calmed down i made contact and we had a good talk.she said that her feelings had changed for me.I told her that I loved her very much and that my heart was always open if she decided to come back at the end of the conversation she said that things could change in a month or two,so that kind of made me feel like if there was some kind of hope.I stopped all contact but i sent her flowers for her birthday and after that I stopped contact again.eight days went by right after her birthday without me making any kind of contact and all of a sudden she texted me asking if i had felt the earthquake that took place in L.A.I just thought that the question didnt make much sense since we both live in san diego and she is asking a day later at 7 am.i did replied back to her.The next day i decided to call and ask her if she would like to get together for dinner or maybe go rock climbing.she said rock climbing was cool .this past sunday after one whole month i got to see her again.That day i went to see her play at her soccer game,from there we went to her house and when we got there i noticed how she still had the flowers i had sent her,they were dry but she still had them.she also had a pic of me and her dog that she took a while back and a candle that I had decorated for her.so we went rock climbing and she was really enjoying it.after taht we went grocery shopping and she told me that she was having fun and that she felt good that i had gone out with her,so we go back to her house and took her dog for a walk,then we went to eat sushi and came back home.I decided it was time for me to leave and so I said goodbye she reached over and gave me a hug. I kissed her in her face and the she looked at me and so i decided to kiss her lips to my surprice she kiss me back not once but three times.she walked me to her door and i hugged her again and kissed her goodbye.we didnt talk about when we were going to see each other again.so I went home and that night she texted me saying tha she was going to bed and thanking me for a very fun day.monday i decided to call and say hi but her voice mail came on and i left a message i figured she was busy.she texted me later on at night saying that she had fun with me on sunday and that we should do it again sometime.my question is if this is a good start?I get a little desperate because she doesnt call me.I wonder if she is just being careful.do you people think that there is hope to restore the relationship we once had?should i continue to pursue her or should i give her some space and wait until she makes contact again? I feel a little confuse here at first she didnt want to see me and then we ended up haing out after a month without seeing each other.so what would be the best approach?continue pursuing her or give her space?
I apologize for mispelling a few words,but I was in a hurry when I wrote this.Any one else has any more opinions?It feels really bad to have spend the whole day sunday with my ex girlfriend specially when she said she was having a good time and not to hear from her.It really confuses the heck out of me knowing that she kissed me.was this a green light?why doesnt she call?

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